Sorry I was very busy until I didn't have time to chit chat with you all. You must be wondering what I'm up to. Well, all is work, preparation for my new house, and my big day is coming.
Work is so so. I happily handled two major projects at the moment and all is well. Praise God. On the family side, lots had happened in the past 1 1/2 month when my 2nd elder sister was here. She came to stay with us as she just gave birth to a baby girl. She's finally back to Gemenchih with her husband and gave us piece of mind for the mean time. Sometime I feel she's quite fake and sometimes she's real when she needs my help. She likes to make up stories and tell my parents and grandma things that I didn't do or say so that I will get scolded. She will make it seemed so real and feels happy when she saw me get scolded. I don't know why she did it, maybe there is something hidden in her, a devil. You know, she came up with the idea that I must pay for the flight ticket for my parents and her family just to attend my wedding. She's over 30 and is still very childish. I thought she's mature enough to know that we've a lot of money to spend on our new house, furniture, wedding, etc. I don't know why she wants to make life much harder for me. Maybe she doesn't know how it feels now, but she will know when her next generation does that to her. At some point, my husband did the analysis and told me that actually my sister just wants attention from my parents and grandma. She is actually very pity as she needs to rely on her husband for the house and for her living expenses.
Let me tell you something "Licik" that my sister did. One day while she was staying here with her husband, her husband asked her if he should go to bank and put the house loan under both of their name or only his name. She said, the house should have her name but not the loan. At the time being, she is working and is suppose to share the burden of her husband which only earns enough to cater for the family expenses. She indeed wants to quit the job she had and wants her husband to support her. I can't see supporting each others, loving, caring, understanding and mature from here. Aren't they suppose to lessen each other's burden and not make my bro-in-law looked so tired everyday? I don't know what she's thinking, and why she's so picky at jobs. She said she only wants a job that she can do from home. Then why doesn't she gave tuition, or teach piano? Sigh. In conclusion, the most innocent person 80% innocent is still my eldest sister, Lee San. She always tells the truth and is such a straight person. Just that she has anger problem and maybe needs baby talk from her husband only to soften her down. Overall, she is OK, if she doesn't tell the wrong stories to mom.
Sometimes I feel that grandma is out to get me too, just like today. She likes to make up stories to let my mom scold me. Today, she was folding my towel and make big stories out of it. FYI, the towel is clean and has just being washed. And i do my own laundry, using washing machine!
Oh ya. Appreciation. I really want to say that I appreciate everyone that is around me, even they are evil or good or bad or something. Someone once asked me, why I give my family money every month whereas all other sibling does not do that. I tell them, I want to appreciate my parents when they are still here with me. I don't know up till when they're be with me, therefore I want to do whatever I can right now, to make them feel secure. The thing I appreciate most is my husband. He is like a fairy tale to me. It's just like he came into my life to safe me from everything that is bad and turned it into good. I'll treasure him forever and ever and want to stay with him forever and ever even up till heaven time later. Oh ya, we were officially married in 2007. He's the most sincere guy and I love him so much. Kam Xia wa e ang. hehe
Let me tell you a little about my "ang". Ang = husband. I'll just share a little bit as I am stingy. LoL.
He is positively unpredictable, understanding, mature, kind heart, likes to do charity, no smoking, no drinking, and always put me first. He likes to give surprises and is always with me.
He is also very honest oh!~
Oh ya, there was once he was naughty during our company's annual dinner. Some stupid aguas (Transgender) dragged him onto the stage and dance to the song "marmalade". Then the transgender took off his clothes and in the end asked him to kiss *his* cheek. When my "ang" tries to be a gentleman and kiss the cheek, the transgender suddenly turned his/her face and purposely kissed my husband's lip leh. EWWWWwww so dirty and so bad.!~
Even though it's a show and annual dinner and joke, I can't take it. I tried to drive his car and go suicide lei. At that time I was with Nurfathehah (a sweet girl), therefore can't suicide loh. Why want her to die with me, she did nothing. I was driving her mah. So cannot hit any trees and die like that. Later her spirit fight with my spirit not nice lor. OK lah, I show u all the pictures next time, with the transgender. Sigh..
Well, mom call to sleep already. It's almost 2am now. I miss my husband, he's on night shift. OK, talk to u all soon. Oh ya, I love my husband. and miss all my friends dearly. Sorry i was very busy ah. For the past 5 months very busy, even saturday and sunday also in Office ah. No time to talk or gossip hehe.
gotta go.
Luv,
-suger-
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