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Stephanie Chew (leeeng)
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Wednesday, January 13 2010

Dilemma and Elder sisters


Hi bloggie and cybersist. It's been a really really long time since i type something here. It's 4.59am in the morning and I couldn't continue my sleep anymore, sigh... I know it's safe to type out what i felt in cybersist, as things i type here won't get too far. This website is great, don't get me wrong.. it's just that at least what i say here won't reach certain people as they do not know this website.. Anyway, even if they do, i don't mind as they are all true.

I'd just given birth a while ago, bb is going to be two months this saturday. She's adorable and cute, baby nicole. I love her a lot. The thing is, why am I always late.. my sis's got pregnant one month earlier than me. Then she got my mom to help take care of her kids one month earlier than me. Although she said earlier, that she'll get a nanny to take care of her kid (besides own family member), she then ended up going against her words and my mom had to be her nanny. Well, she's really lucky that her son is a good one. My mom call her son "pig" cuz he keeps on sleeping and eating.. a very easy baby to take care.. not like mine, very fussy, naughty, picky, and wants everything fasts. Her grandma thinks she has sleep-walking syndrome. How do i know? Cuz she cries with her eyes closed. When we call her name to wake her up, she stops crying when she opened her eyes.. Weird huh?

Anyhow, my mom has been sick these days. I too, seek help from my mom to care for baby nicole for a while, until CNY thinking that it would save me some bucks, as CNY is approaching and passing Nicole to a babysitter would be a waste now, since holiday is around the corner. THe thing is, just a few days staying with my mom "day time" and taking care of my baby nicole together with my mom, made me realise that she's not fit to help take care of 2 child.. although mine was suppose to be until february only. .. That's okay, as long as I understands it, i quickly seek a nanny nearby my house.. It seems like my elder sister on the other hand, still wants my mom to continue taking care of her son (now going to be 3 months). Why can't she see that mom is not feeling well and already has a lot to do since grandma died? Can't she tell mom, ma, please rest.. I"ll send my child to a nanny like Steph *me* ? well, if anything happens to mom, i'll sure be the first to blame her on it. Take my word.. (sound serious, but when it comes, I don't think i can really blame her as my mom offered to help her) *roll eyes*

ANyhow, second sis is better on child care requests from my mom *now*. She previously requests mom to go to america (new jersey) to help take care of her first son. According to mom, second sis still owes our *ma flight ticket.. She's suppose to pay mom, isn't it? LoL *no comment. And this sis, is more about $$.. I remember she made me cry the whole night before my wedding day. My eyes are all swollen and my makeup assistant says, what happen to u? Cry all night because you're getting married today? I was suppose to be the happiest person on my wedding day right? I'm not stupid , i just coudln't take it anymore that's why I cry. She's really TOO MUCH!! Until i have to burst it all out here. BOth sisters are too much.

HOw can she ask me to pay for flight tickets from one state to another just to attend my wedding? I already pay for accommodation and food for three days two nights. She even complained to mom on my bridesmaid stealing her room. HEY, my bridemaid already offered you the master room and you refused to take it. Why then complain to mom that I am the one who say, GIVE my BRIDEMAID the master room? Well, what a sis that I have here. ANyway, u can drive from one state to another, just to attend my wedding. Malaysia is not that far, until u need to take flight. IT's just a 6 hours drive. I already paid thousands of bucks just for accommodation, and u want me to pay thousands extra for your flight? come on! Well, it all ended up my mom told her to understand my situation. I already spend a lot on my new house renovation and wedding... luckily, i still have mom to save me couple of bucks here. *praise god*.

ah.. well, 5.15am now and I feel much better after expressing it all out.. Thanks cousin, for building such a wonderful website..

Another thing still, I know i have a great sis who breastfed both her babies up till around 1 year old. WHy don't teach me the tips that helped you breastfed and kept your milk supply? I was having latching problem with baby nicole and I remember she said, "no problem, she was drinking and i could hear her swallow" when I asked her "am I doing it right"? Baby Nicole wasn't even swallowing at that time when I asked her. And later on, only i found out that i was doing a bit mistake, it was latching problem. Thank you Avent (a brand name) for helping a lot with my babies latching. The bottle's teat seemed to teach baby nicole to latch properly, automatically. Anyhow, the only problem is that she still needs one formula bottle feed per day,seems like my supply isn't enough for her. Some other times, she still breastfed. I'm going back to work next Monday, just 4 more days of maternity leaves left. And no tips from my sis who goes back to work and pump breasts milk everyday. Oh ya, she didn't seem to want to borrow me her electric medela breast pump. SHe did brought it over to borrow my eldest sis though, and it didn't work for her. God is FAIR. SHe gets something, she didn't get others.

well, 5.20am, i better get back to bed before hubby comes down to get me. He's sleeping and snoring happily now *tee hee. I coudln't sleep too, if he snores too loud. ANyhow, i like him snoring as i know he's close. If he works night shift, I might miss it too, *sometimes*. LoL.

Ah, better go back to sleep now. Sleep is very important for milk supply too... nite nite all.

Oh ya, cousin, i wanted to upload photos here a lot of times but sometimes it seems really slow. ANy tips on speeding up the process?

Talk to u soon. nite nite
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